Why am I so unmotivated to do anything

Whether you cant get motivated to clean your house or you just arent feeling motivated to lose weight, a lack of motivation can be the biggest obstacle to reaching your goals.When

Why am I so unmotivated to do anything

Whether you cant get motivated to clean your house or you just arent feeling motivated to lose weight, a lack of motivation can be the biggest obstacle to reaching your goals.

When you have no motivation to complete a task (or even start one), consider the possible reasons why youre struggling. Then, develop a plan to help motivate yourself to get going.

Keep in mind that not every strategy works for everyoneor in every situation. Perform some behavioral experiments to see which strategies best help you reach your goals.

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Act as If You Feel Motivated

You may be able to trick yourself into feeling motivated by changing your behavior. Act as if you felt motivated, and your actions may change your emotions.

For example, rather than sit on the couch in your pajamas all day waiting for motivation to strike, get dressed and get moving. You might find that taking action will increase your motivation, which makes it easier to keep going.

So ask yourself, What would I be doing right now if I felt motivated? Consider what youd be wearing, how youd be thinking, and what actions youd be taking. Then, do these things, and see if your motivation level increases.1:29

Everything You Need to Know About Motivation

Argue the Opposite

When youre struggling with motivation, youll likely come up with a long list of reasons why you shouldnt take any action. You might think, Itll be too hard, or, Ill never get it done anyway. These types of thoughts will keep you stuck.

Try arguing the opposite. When you think youre going to fail, argue all the reasons why you might succeed. Or when you think you cant finish a job, list all the evidence that shows youll be able to complete the task.

Arguing the opposite can help you see both ends of the spectrum. It can also remind you that an overly pessimistic outcome isnt completely accurate.

Theres a chance that things might work out better than you expect. And you might find that developing a more balanced outlook will help you feel more motivated to try.Doing What You Love: The Battle of Extrinsic vs. Intrinsic Motivation

Practice Self-Compassion

You might think being hard on yourself is the key to getting motivated. But harsh self-criticism doesnt work.

Research shows that self-compassion is actually much more motivating, especially when you are struggling with adversity.

A 2011 study conducted by researchers at the University of California found that self-compassion increases the motivation to recover from failure. After failing a test, students spent more time studying when they spoke to themselves kindly. Additionally, they reported greater motivation to change their weaknesses when they practiced self-acceptance (a key component of self-compassion).

Self-compassion may also improve mental health (which can increase motivation). A 2012 study published in Clinical Psychology Review discovered that self-compassion decreases psychological distress, reduces the symptoms of anxiety and depression, and reduces the harmful effects of stress.

So rather than beat yourself up for mistakes or call yourself names, create a kinder inner dialogue. This doesnt mean you need to repeat exaggeratedly positive affirmations like, Im the best person in the world, however.

Instead, healthy self-compassion balances self-acceptance with self-improvement. Acknowledge your flaws, mistakes, and failures with honesty. But dont indulge in a pity party.

Speak to yourself like a trusted friend. Ask yourself, What would I say to a friend who had this problem? Youd likely be much kinder to someone else than you are toward yourself. So start treating yourself like a good friend.

Additionally, coach yourself in a helpful manner. Practice using self-talk that encourages you and helps you recover from setbacks.How to Develop Self-Compassion

Use the 10-Minute Rule

When you dread doing somethinglike walking on the treadmill for three milesyoull lack motivation to do it. You can reduce your feelings of dread, however, by proving to yourself that the task isnt as bad as you think or that you have the strength to tolerate it better than you envision.

The 10-minute rule can help you get started. Give yourself permission to quit a task after 10 minutes. When you reach the 10-minute mark, ask yourself if you want to keep going or quit. Youll likely find that you have enough motivation to keep going.

So whether you lack motivation to start working on a boring report, or you cant seem to get yourself off the couch to start a to-do list, use the 10-minute rule to motivate yourself to take action.

Getting started on a task is usually the hardest part. Once you get going, however, its much easier to keep going.

Go For a Walk in Nature

Fresh air, a change of scenery, and a little exercise can do wonders for your motivation. Walking in natureas opposed to a busy urban streetcan be especially beneficial.

A 2013 study published in the British Journal of Sports Medicine found that walking half a mile through a park reduces brain fatigue. Being in nature offers a calming effect that rejuvenates the brainwhich can help motivate you to tackle a tough task.

So rather than walk down a crowded street, go to the park or a botanical garden instead. Being surrounded by nature can provide the mental escape you need to return to your project feeling more motivated than before.

Pair a Dreaded Task With Something You Enjoy

Your emotions play a major role in your motivation level. If youre sad, bored, lonely, or anxious, your desire to tackle a tough challenge or complete a tedious task will suffer.

Boost your mood by adding a little fun to something youre not motivated to do. Youll feel happier and you might even look forward to doing the task when its regularly paired with something fun.

Here are some examples:

  • Listen to music while you run.
  • Call a friend, and talk while youre cleaning the house.
  • Light a scented candle while youre working on your computer.
  • Rent a luxury vehicle when you travel for business.
  • Invite a friend to run errands with you.
  • Turn on your favorite show while youre folding laundry.

Just make sure that your fun doesnt impair your performance. For example, watching TV while writing a paper might distract you and slow you down even more. Or talking to a friend while youre cleaning the house might be so distracting that you cant pay attention to what youre doing.

Manage Your To-Do List

Its tough to feel motivated when your to-do list is overwhelming. If you feel like theres no hope in getting everything done, you might not try to do anything.

Keep in mind that most people underestimate how long something will take them. And when they dont get it done on time, they might view themselves as lazy or inefficient. This can backfire by causing them to lose motivationwhich makes it even harder to get more things done.

Take a look at your to-do list, and determine if its too long. If so, get rid of tasks that arent essential.

See if other tasks can be moved to a different day. Prioritize the most important things on the list, and move those to the top.

You might find a slight change in your to-do listor the way you view your to-do listwill help you to see your tasks as more manageable. As a result, you might feel more motivated to get to work.

Mental Health in the Workplace Webinar

On May 19, 2022, Verywell Mind hosted a virtual Mental Health in the Workplace webinar, hosted by Editor-in-Chief Amy Morin, LCSW. If you missed it, check outthis recapto learn ways to foster supportive work environments and helpful strategies to improve your well-being on the job.

Practice Self-Care

Youll struggle with motivation as long as you arent caring for yourself. Sleep-deprivation, a poor diet, and lack of leisure time are just a few things that can make trudging through the day more difficult than ever.

Create a healthy self-care plan that allows you to take care of your mind and body:

  • Exercise regularly.
  • Get plenty of sleep.
  • Drink water, and eat a healthy diet.
  • Make time for leisure and fun.
  • Use healthy coping skills to deal with stress.
  • Avoid unhealthy habits, like binge eating and drinking too much alcohol.5 Self-Care Practices for Every Area of Your Life

Reward Yourself for Working

Create a small reward for yourself that you can earn for your hard work. You might find focusing on the reward helps you stay motivated to reach your goals.

For example, if you have a long paper to write for class, you might tackle it in several different ways:

  • Write 500 words, and then take a 10-minute break.
  • Eat one piece of chocolate after 30 minutes of work.
  • Write one page a day, and then remind yourself that when youre done, youll have free time to do whatever you want.
  • Work for 20 minutes, and then spend 5 minutes checking social media.
  • When you complete the paper, allow yourself to go out with friends.

Consider whether you are likely to be more motivated by smaller, more frequent rewards or a bigger reward for a complete job. You may want to experiment with a few different strategies until you discover an approach that works best for you.

Make sure your rewards dont sabotage your efforts, however. Rewarding your hard work at the gym with a sugary treat might be counterproductive. And counterproductive bad habits will decrease your motivation in the long term.Is a Four-Day Workweek the Answer?

Seek Professional Help

If your motivation remains low for two or more weeks, seek professional help. You may also want to seek help if your lack of motivation is affecting your daily functioning. For example, if you arent able to go to work, your performance at work is suffering, or if you cant get motivated to leave the house, this could be a sign of something more serious.

Schedule an appointment with your physician. Your doctor may want to rule out physical health conditions that may be affecting your energy or mood.

Your doctor may also refer you to a mental health professional to determine if your lack of motivation might be related to a mental illness, like depression. If so, treatment may include therapy, medication, or a combination of both.

You may also want to consider an online therapy program to address any underlying issues and tackle your lack of motivation.

Causes of Having No Motivation

Sometimes, no motivation can be the problem. At other times, its merely the symptom of a bigger problem.

For example, if youre a perfectionist, your lack of motivation may stem from the fear that you wont complete a task flawlessly. Until you address this need to be perfect, your motivation isnt likely to increase.

At other times, your lack of motivation may cause you to procrastinate. And the more you procrastinate, the less motivated you feel. In this case, improving your motivation to get work done can help you feel better and perform better.

So its important to take a few minutes to consider why you might have trouble motivating yourself. Here are some common reasons for a lack of motivation:

  • Avoidance of discomfort. Whether you dont want to feel bored when doing a mundane task, or you are trying to avoid feelings of frustration by dodging a tough challenge, sometimes a lack of motivation stems from a desire to avoid uncomfortable feelings.
  • Self-doubt. When you think you cant do somethingor are convinced you cant tolerate the distress associated with a certain taskyoull likely struggle to get started.
  • Being over-extended. When you have a lot going on in life, youll likely feel overwhelmed. And this feeling can zap your motivation.
  • Lack of commitment to a goal. Agreeing to a task simply because you felt obligated, or declaring a resolution out of peer pressure, may mean your heart really isnt in it. And you likely wont take action when you arent committed to your goal.
  • Mental health issues. A lack of motivation is a common symptom of depression. It can also be linked to other mental illnesses, like anxiety. So its important to consider whether your mental health may be affecting your motivation level.

These are just a few common reasons why people sometimes lack motivation. You might find that your lack of motivation stems from other issues, like the fear of what people think or a desire to please everyone. So carefully consider the underlying thoughts and feelings that are affecting your drive.

A Word From Verywell

Everyone struggles with motivation issues at one time or another. The way you respond to your lack of motivation is what matters, however. Be kind to yourself, experiment with strategies that increase your motivation, and ask for help if you need it.What Motivation Theory Can Tell Us About Human BehaviorWas this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback!

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Whether you cant get motivated to clean your house or you just arent feeling motivated to lose weight, a lack of motivation can be the biggest obstacle to reaching your goals.

When you have no motivation to complete a task (or even start one), consider the possible reasons why youre struggling. Then, develop a plan to help motivate yourself to get going.

Keep in mind that not every strategy works for everyoneor in every situation. Perform some behavioral experiments to see which strategies best help you reach your goals.

Get Advice From The Verywell Mind Podcast

Hosted by Editor-in-Chief and therapist Amy Morin, LCSW, this episode of The Verywell Mind Podcast shares strategies to motivate yourself to get healthy, featuring fitness trainer Jillian Michaels.

Follow Now: Apple Podcasts / Spotify / Google Podcasts / RSS

Act as If You Feel Motivated

You may be able to trick yourself into feeling motivated by changing your behavior. Act as if you felt motivated, and your actions may change your emotions.

For example, rather than sit on the couch in your pajamas all day waiting for motivation to strike, get dressed and get moving. You might find that taking action will increase your motivation, which makes it easier to keep going.

So ask yourself, What would I be doing right now if I felt motivated? Consider what youd be wearing, how youd be thinking, and what actions youd be taking. Then, do these things, and see if your motivation level increases.1:29

Everything You Need to Know About Motivation

Argue the Opposite

When youre struggling with motivation, youll likely come up with a long list of reasons why you shouldnt take any action. You might think, Itll be too hard, or, Ill never get it done anyway. These types of thoughts will keep you stuck.

Try arguing the opposite. When you think youre going to fail, argue all the reasons why you might succeed. Or when you think you cant finish a job, list all the evidence that shows youll be able to complete the task.

Arguing the opposite can help you see both ends of the spectrum. It can also remind you that an overly pessimistic outcome isnt completely accurate.

Theres a chance that things might work out better than you expect. And you might find that developing a more balanced outlook will help you feel more motivated to try.Doing What You Love: The Battle of Extrinsic vs. Intrinsic Motivation

Practice Self-Compassion

You might think being hard on yourself is the key to getting motivated. But harsh self-criticism doesnt work.

Research shows that self-compassion is actually much more motivating, especially when you are struggling with adversity.

A 2011 study conducted by researchers at the University of California found that self-compassion increases the motivation to recover from failure. After failing a test, students spent more time studying when they spoke to themselves kindly. Additionally, they reported greater motivation to change their weaknesses when they practiced self-acceptance (a key component of self-compassion).

Self-compassion may also improve mental health (which can increase motivation). A 2012 study published in Clinical Psychology Review discovered that self-compassion decreases psychological distress, reduces the symptoms of anxiety and depression, and reduces the harmful effects of stress.

So rather than beat yourself up for mistakes or call yourself names, create a kinder inner dialogue. This doesnt mean you need to repeat exaggeratedly positive affirmations like, Im the best person in the world, however.

Instead, healthy self-compassion balances self-acceptance with self-improvement. Acknowledge your flaws, mistakes, and failures with honesty. But dont indulge in a pity party.

Speak to yourself like a trusted friend. Ask yourself, What would I say to a friend who had this problem? Youd likely be much kinder to someone else than you are toward yourself. So start treating yourself like a good friend.

Additionally, coach yourself in a helpful manner. Practice using self-talk that encourages you and helps you recover from setbacks.How to Develop Self-Compassion

Use the 10-Minute Rule

When you dread doing somethinglike walking on the treadmill for three milesyoull lack motivation to do it. You can reduce your feelings of dread, however, by proving to yourself that the task isnt as bad as you think or that you have the strength to tolerate it better than you envision.

The 10-minute rule can help you get started. Give yourself permission to quit a task after 10 minutes. When you reach the 10-minute mark, ask yourself if you want to keep going or quit. Youll likely find that you have enough motivation to keep going.

So whether you lack motivation to start working on a boring report, or you cant seem to get yourself off the couch to start a to-do list, use the 10-minute rule to motivate yourself to take action.

Getting started on a task is usually the hardest part. Once you get going, however, its much easier to keep going.

Go For a Walk in Nature

Fresh air, a change of scenery, and a little exercise can do wonders for your motivation. Walking in natureas opposed to a busy urban streetcan be especially beneficial.

A 2013 study published in the British Journal of Sports Medicine found that walking half a mile through a park reduces brain fatigue. Being in nature offers a calming effect that rejuvenates the brainwhich can help motivate you to tackle a tough task.

So rather than walk down a crowded street, go to the park or a botanical garden instead. Being surrounded by nature can provide the mental escape you need to return to your project feeling more motivated than before.

Pair a Dreaded Task With Something You Enjoy

Your emotions play a major role in your motivation level. If youre sad, bored, lonely, or anxious, your desire to tackle a tough challenge or complete a tedious task will suffer.

Boost your mood by adding a little fun to something youre not motivated to do. Youll feel happier and you might even look forward to doing the task when its regularly paired with something fun.

Here are some examples:

  • Listen to music while you run.
  • Call a friend, and talk while youre cleaning the house.
  • Light a scented candle while youre working on your computer.
  • Rent a luxury vehicle when you travel for business.
  • Invite a friend to run errands with you.
  • Turn on your favorite show while youre folding laundry.

Just make sure that your fun doesnt impair your performance. For example, watching TV while writing a paper might distract you and slow you down even more. Or talking to a friend while youre cleaning the house might be so distracting that you cant pay attention to what youre doing.

Manage Your To-Do List

Its tough to feel motivated when your to-do list is overwhelming. If you feel like theres no hope in getting everything done, you might not try to do anything.

Keep in mind that most people underestimate how long something will take them. And when they dont get it done on time, they might view themselves as lazy or inefficient. This can backfire by causing them to lose motivationwhich makes it even harder to get more things done.

Take a look at your to-do list, and determine if its too long. If so, get rid of tasks that arent essential.

See if other tasks can be moved to a different day. Prioritize the most important things on the list, and move those to the top.

You might find a slight change in your to-do listor the way you view your to-do listwill help you to see your tasks as more manageable. As a result, you might feel more motivated to get to work.

Mental Health in the Workplace Webinar

On May 19, 2022, Verywell Mind hosted a virtual Mental Health in the Workplace webinar, hosted by Editor-in-Chief Amy Morin, LCSW. If you missed it, check outthis recapto learn ways to foster supportive work environments and helpful strategies to improve your well-being on the job.

Practice Self-Care

Youll struggle with motivation as long as you arent caring for yourself. Sleep-deprivation, a poor diet, and lack of leisure time are just a few things that can make trudging through the day more difficult than ever.

Create a healthy self-care plan that allows you to take care of your mind and body:

  • Exercise regularly.
  • Get plenty of sleep.
  • Drink water, and eat a healthy diet.
  • Make time for leisure and fun.
  • Use healthy coping skills to deal with stress.
  • Avoid unhealthy habits, like binge eating and drinking too much alcohol.5 Self-Care Practices for Every Area of Your Life

Reward Yourself for Working

Create a small reward for yourself that you can earn for your hard work. You might find focusing on the reward helps you stay motivated to reach your goals.

For example, if you have a long paper to write for class, you might tackle it in several different ways:

  • Write 500 words, and then take a 10-minute break.
  • Eat one piece of chocolate after 30 minutes of work.
  • Write one page a day, and then remind yourself that when youre done, youll have free time to do whatever you want.
  • Work for 20 minutes, and then spend 5 minutes checking social media.
  • When you complete the paper, allow yourself to go out with friends.

Consider whether you are likely to be more motivated by smaller, more frequent rewards or a bigger reward for a complete job. You may want to experiment with a few different strategies until you discover an approach that works best for you.

Make sure your rewards dont sabotage your efforts, however. Rewarding your hard work at the gym with a sugary treat might be counterproductive. And counterproductive bad habits will decrease your motivation in the long term.Is a Four-Day Workweek the Answer?

Seek Professional Help

If your motivation remains low for two or more weeks, seek professional help. You may also want to seek help if your lack of motivation is affecting your daily functioning. For example, if you arent able to go to work, your performance at work is suffering, or if you cant get motivated to leave the house, this could be a sign of something more serious.

Schedule an appointment with your physician. Your doctor may want to rule out physical health conditions that may be affecting your energy or mood.

Your doctor may also refer you to a mental health professional to determine if your lack of motivation might be related to a mental illness, like depression. If so, treatment may include therapy, medication, or a combination of both.

You may also want to consider an online therapy program to address any underlying issues and tackle your lack of motivation.

Causes of Having No Motivation

Sometimes, no motivation can be the problem. At other times, its merely the symptom of a bigger problem.

For example, if youre a perfectionist, your lack of motivation may stem from the fear that you wont complete a task flawlessly. Until you address this need to be perfect, your motivation isnt likely to increase.

At other times, your lack of motivation may cause you to procrastinate. And the more you procrastinate, the less motivated you feel. In this case, improving your motivation to get work done can help you feel better and perform better.

So its important to take a few minutes to consider why you might have trouble motivating yourself. Here are some common reasons for a lack of motivation:

  • Avoidance of discomfort. Whether you dont want to feel bored when doing a mundane task, or you are trying to avoid feelings of frustration by dodging a tough challenge, sometimes a lack of motivation stems from a desire to avoid uncomfortable feelings.
  • Self-doubt. When you think you cant do somethingor are convinced you cant tolerate the distress associated with a certain taskyoull likely struggle to get started.
  • Being over-extended. When you have a lot going on in life, youll likely feel overwhelmed. And this feeling can zap your motivation.
  • Lack of commitment to a goal. Agreeing to a task simply because you felt obligated, or declaring a resolution out of peer pressure, may mean your heart really isnt in it. And you likely wont take action when you arent committed to your goal.
  • Mental health issues. A lack of motivation is a common symptom of depression. It can also be linked to other mental illnesses, like anxiety. So its important to consider whether your mental health may be affecting your motivation level.

These are just a few common reasons why people sometimes lack motivation. You might find that your lack of motivation stems from other issues, like the fear of what people think or a desire to please everyone. So carefully consider the underlying thoughts and feelings that are affecting your drive.

A Word From Verywell

Everyone struggles with motivation issues at one time or another. The way you respond to your lack of motivation is what matters, however. Be kind to yourself, experiment with strategies that increase your motivation, and ask for help if you need it.What Motivation Theory Can Tell Us About Human Behavior

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