How is your day today

20 Questions to Ask Instead of How Was Your Day?Jun 21, 2018Written by Jennifer HealeyInstead of resorting to the same old How was your day? try asking questions that inspire more

How is your day today

20 Questions to Ask Instead of How Was Your Day?Jun 21, 2018

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Written by Jennifer Healey

20 Questions to Ask Instead of How Was Your Day?
20 Questions to Ask Instead of How Was Your Day?

Instead of resorting to the same old How was your day? try asking questions that inspire more meaningful and enjoyable end-of-day conversations with your loved ones.

How was your day? can symbolize your willingness to be present with someone elses thoughts and feelings, and that in itself is a gesture of generosity.

But if the question is routine and lacks sincerity, it can come across as lazy and feel stagnant for both you and the person youre asking.

Something to keep in mind is that your presence is just as powerful as the question itself, maybe even more important.

The people you love deserve your undivided attention and sincere support. Thats how you keep relationships strong, by being 100% there during the ordinary, everyday moments.

So, instead of asking How was your day? try something new.

Choose one or a few of the questions below to help you get started.

The goal isnt to fix their problems but to invite them to think through their day and extract something valuable from it, even if it was a frustrating day. The goal is to hold a supportive space for the highs and lows, to reinforce successful strategies, to celebrate their joys, and to offer empathy where needed.

Here are some ideas to help you celebrate and support the people you share your home and life with.

If you ask the right questions, you might be surprised by how much you learn.

20 Questions to Ask Besides How Was Your Day? for Richer Conversations

1. What was the best part of your day?

2. Is there a frustrating moment or struggle that youd like to get off your chest?

3. Now that youre home, is there anything I can do to help you?

4. How are you really feeling today?

5. Tell me three good things about today.

Giving someone your undivided attention is one of the most generous things you can do.  Ali B. Moe

6. Did you receive any good news today?

7. Whats something youre grateful for having seen, heard, or been a part of?

8. Did you see anything beautiful where you didnt expect to?

9. What songs did you listen to today?

10. Did you listen to an audiobook or a podcast? What was it about?

11. Did you read anything interesting today?

12. Did you learn anything new?

13. Whats the best conversation you had today?

14. What are you most proud of today?

15. Did you get the chance to help anyone today?

When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. But when you listen, you may learn something new.  Dalai Lama

16. Did anyone help you with something today?

17. Did you get any compliments today?

18. Did you make any good connections with your coworkers/customers/clients/coach/boss today?

19. Are there any victories youd like to share?

20. What did you spend most of your time doing/thinking about today?

. . .

Tell me:

Which of these questions will you be asking tonight?

Tell me in the comments. And tell me how it goes, if you want. I read every single one, and Id love to know!

With love,

Jen

P.S. For 99 more ways to end your day on a positive note, get my book Sleep Rituals: 100 Practices for a Deep and Peaceful Sleep. Youll get better at letting the stress go so you can just relax.

Instead of resorting to the same old How was your day? try asking questions that inspire more meaningful and enjoyable end-of-day conversations with your loved ones. Here are some ideas to help you celebrate and support the people you share your home and life with.

Comments on this post (12)

  • Jul 23, 2021

I like it

Joseph

  • Apr 30, 2021

Appreciated!

Euphrasia

  • Mar 21, 2021

Fantastic

Jamie

  • Mar 14, 2021

I liked this and added onto the end of the sentence to make each one more personal.
I created a shortcut in phone for each of these.
Are there any victories youd like to share from today? I know this wasnt today, but Im sure you remember coming in third for the Olympics back in the day You tried your best and its not always about coming in 1st, or 2nd. Any little victories since its hard to compete with the Olympics?

Lamper

  • Sep 25, 2020

Nice and helpful

Wilson

  • Aug 31, 2020

Sleep is so important, rejuvenated and to feel fresh and renewed helps clarity of the mind. I go to dream of YOU.Goodnight Godless
Sweet Dreams X

Annemarie Sloan

  • Aug 17, 2020

Helpfulness

Josephy mdoeh

  • May 20, 2020

I like this

Tumwine

  • Oct 20, 2019

I would like to learn all kinds of things to keep communication strong and interesting.cause thats the most important thing in a relationship

Love it....thank you

  • Aug 26, 2019

Monica, I love the simplicity of it :)

Jennifer Williamson

  • Aug 26, 2019

4

Monica

  • Jul 18, 2019

Keep it up

Godspower

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